Just when you get divorced you want to remove all the errors from your life and reconstruct it. You badly want this life of yours to work better than the previous one. Life doesn’t give assurance that it will be melodious all the times, so for harsh times you better find a support which you will need. Generally this support comes from your family and friends as they understand you the most and can speak openly in front of you. The friends that understand your misery after the divorce and accept you in such harsh times are really worth preciously maintaining for. You should always be in company with your best allies as they know everything about you and can be the best judge.
There also will be a fall out between you and some of your friends regarding the divorce as they don’t think it was the right option for you. There will also be many who will stop being friends with you as they think you are no longer valuable to them. The only advice is to disregard them and consider as if they never ever existed. These types of people end on the side of the wealthier spouse. You should always be in contact with those friends on whom you can incline on for support and advice. With time you will get the awareness of your real friends as the tables turn quickly in this world.
The most important thing is sharing with your friends everything that you are feeling after the divorce. This should be done because there will be some topic concealed that your friends can help you recover. Sharing your experiences help people to find the best way for you to get out of loneliness and feel better.
There are also some couples who maintain friendship with both theirs as well as their spouse’s friends. This is a high sign of maturity but you should be very careful at this point. Some of them can get smart and leak out your experiences after the divorce. This will only make you feel weaker. Share this only with the people you trust the most. With the guys that have stuck by you through thick and thin. There will also be certain guys that will only make matters worse for you. This can increase anxiety between you and your ex-spouse. You must handle such situations very smartly and should also use your fists if necessary as these guys deserve it.
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