How to express feeling of divorce in front of loved ones?
Informing your spouse regarding the divorce is a daunting task and more difficult is to bring this into the notice of family and friends. But you need to select the proper time for declaring the news of divorce. You should not declare such news at a time like a dinner party or similar event. You need to take some people out for dinner and then talk to them regarding the divorce. You should ask them whether your decision regarding the divorce is correct or not. It is sure that your family will understand you and if you find that a person will not listen then you should communicate this to them through the grapevine. You need to maintain your calm while speaking to them because this news can be shocking if they do not know about the ongoing problems in your marriage life.
Communicating With People
Means of communication like phone, answering machine and letters must be avoided to communicate such news. If at a particular point you think you cannot talk about the divorce to someone then you must avoid talking to them and must wait for appropriate time to gain confidence and inform them. Once this news spreads out to family members you are sure to get a lot of questions. Don't get frightened, you have the right to choose the question and decide if you want to answer it. There is no need of providing justification to anyone regarding your divorce decision because it is your feelings. Stay away from some people because there are people who will feel sorry for you and comment on your situation. At such times it is better to pull yourself away from such events.
Once the people start understanding your situation you will feel better and gain more strength to face the public. Children are the most sensitive part of the divorce because they are the ones to be impacted by it. Husband and wife must be available at the same time and must tell the children about their decision to separate. It should be noted that children must understand you are always there with them at any point in life. Divorce is hard, you must be open to friends and family they love you and are there to support you.